On August 12th I published a funny little blog post about the stupid things I’ve seen people wearing around Brooklyn since I’ve been here titled Chicago Hipsters Vs Brooklyn Hipsters. I’ve had this blog since February of 2009 and never have I gotten as much attention for anything I’ve written.
On the morning of the 13th Gapers Block put it on their front page, and in the afternoon it found it’s way onto Windy Citizen. That day I had 2,800 views, twice as many as my previous busiest day when I released my Summer Ebook.
It continued to get major play on twitter and facebook all weekend and on Monday the 16th the Chicago Reader picked it up. This past Friday it was Windy Citizen’s #1 most read story, so it got emailed out to their mailing list, me included, resulting in my second busiest blog day to date.
Since August 13th I’ve gotten 41 new twitter followers and The Sweatshop Facebook Fan Page has gotten 19 new fans.
Needless to say I was absolutely floored by the response to this post. I loved writing it and searching for pictures of the stupid outfits I was seeing around town and I spend really long time on it to make it just right. But I love writing every post I write and spend a really long time on every post to make it just right. I do this for free, for me and The Sweatshop, so if I didn’t love it I wouldn’t do it.
With all the readers, though, came some laughably negative comments, including a few extended fights between New Yorkers and Chicagoans about pizza.
A few of these comments went as far as to call me a stupid, boring asshole.
I don’t take any of these comments to heart and they don’t bother me in the least. I’m not stupid. And if I were boring you wouldn’t be reading much less leaving heated comments. And I’m not an asshole. I’m FUNNY! Sometimes, if you aren’t very smart, it is hard to tell the difference. It’s sad that a silly post about ankle collar sandals can get people as angry as it did, and that people put so much of their energy toward leaving anonymous angry comments on a random blog about knitting.
One of these negative comments did get me thinking, though. One woman asked, ‘Who do you think you are?’ before telling me I had no right to criticize everyone I see.
(Which, by the way, is ridiculous. America + Internet = Hypercritical Free-For-All, people! This is not new information.)
So who do I think I am?
I’m nobody. And neither are you. I’m a person who wrote a blog about stupid pants. I shouldn’t matter enough to you for you to call me an asshole anymore than you matter to me for calling me one.
I’m nobody. My opinion doesn’t matter. If you are sitting at a coffee shop wearing diaper harem shorts and a bra reading my post about how you are dressed like an idiot, you can easily do some googling and find another post about how you are dressed awesomely written by another nobody whose opinion doesn’t matter.
Who sounds like the bigger asshole? The person who writes about how stupid it is to wear shorts that look like a diaper or the person who anonymously calls a stranger an asshole for writing about how stupid it is to wear shorts that look like a diaper?
You think it’s her? Fine! You think it’s me? Fine! Unless you are my mom, who left this comment…
Allyson- I should not have read this at work…people hear me laughing and I am the only one in the room! One of the most enjoyable things you have written. Love you. Your Mommy
… I don’t care if you think I’m an asshole.
So who do I think I am? I’m me, ok?! Jeez.
There are a whole lot of words out there to read and I’m honored that so many people take the time to read mine, whether they think I’m an asshole or not.

















I think you’re the shit.
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Comment by rAchel.jones @ontheround — August 26, 2010 @ 9:36 am
Even though you rag on my male harem pant-shorts everyday, I shall defend your right to do so!
Never let the haters get you down, because: http://www.gifbin.com/982918
Comment by PT — August 26, 2010 @ 11:30 am
Bravo, chica. You’ve got your shit together. And by “shit,” I mean perspective, of course. There will always be someone who disagrees. (I find it suspicious, in fact, that they took the time and energy to get angry and let you know about it. The angry. Perhaps there are other issues in play here.) Besides, the ability to pick and choose and categorize is a luxury of being human. If we HAD to wear diaper pants, it wouldn’t be funny. But that chick made the decision to wear diaper-like pants, and you (along with most sane people) categorize them as diapers – not fashion. Although I’m pretty sure people get into this fashion stuff to make other people feel things, and if you are particularly struck by her outfit (one way or another) then that means they’ve succeeded, right? Everybody is looking for acknowledgement, even if it means getting other people angry. Same deal with blogging. The key is that you don’t start thinking you’re queen of the harem (pants) just because people got their grundies in a twist.
I hope none of that was offensive. At least to you. Opinions are important, as is standing by who you are and what you do. Also, I might get a plain white tshirt that says “I’m nobody and so are you.” brilliant.
cheers, and cheers again!
Daisy
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Comment by Rainy Daisy — August 26, 2010 @ 12:05 pm
I laughed almost as hard at your Mom’s comment as your whole post over it.
because I too, got busted reading your blog at my desk, and was belly laughing so hard some peeps came up so see what was wrong with me (cuz I never laugh, let alone BELLY laugh)
you GO girl, and I saw your bad juju over it and it made me sad.
I love your attitude over it!
as always
YOU ROCK!
xo
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Comment by Cindy — August 26, 2010 @ 2:32 pm
EXACTLY! Not offended in the least. Everybody has got to do their own thing and make themselves happy! Thank you for your comment.
Comment by allyson — August 26, 2010 @ 4:30 pm
My favorite was the one where someone asked “Is it your JOB to [critique people's clothes]?” That’s how I’m going to talk to people I disagree with. “Is it your JOB to critique movies, or are you just trying to hurt George Lucas’ feelings?” “Is it your JOB to be a restaurant critique, or do you just have a vendetta against broccoli?”
Because god forbid we have hobbies.
Comment by AnnWithNoE — August 26, 2010 @ 5:04 pm
As my friend who writes for a magazine always says, if you write something and you get hate mail, that’s how you know it was good. People just weren’t ready for the truth I guess.
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Comment by jen — August 26, 2010 @ 6:23 pm
I’m totally wearing Harem pants when I see you.
And wearing a shirt that says, “A-Hole”
Just like that.
You’re hilarious and it’s great!
Comment by Jeanna — August 26, 2010 @ 6:33 pm
You have a blog?
Comment by jamie — August 27, 2010 @ 7:06 am
Alright…first I was pissed someone would call my daughter an asshole. But it must be terrible to be that stupid…and obviously they are wearing diaper pants as they are reading your blog.
love you, Mom
Comment by skd — August 27, 2010 @ 10:36 am
“I’m FUNNY! Sometimes, if you aren’t very smart, it is hard to tell the difference.”
I wonder if you see the irony in this statement.
And, darn it all, now I’m questioning more than just your fashion sense. No self-respecting adult in Chicago has ever worn a romper, hipster or not. Seriously.
Comment by JW — September 2, 2010 @ 2:30 am